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I Know What Victoria’s Secret Is…

I was kind of disturbed after reading this post about Victoria’s Secret on Lovelyish. I honestly refuse to believe that Victoria’s Secret is something that women can hate. The women who say they hate it are lying. I think they aren’t admitting that it’s more about self esteem . You know why? “Victoria’s secret” has nothing to do with the sexy lingerie that they sell. Victoria’s secret is the confidence of a woman feeling gorgeous and sexy no matter what she’s wearing. Victoria’s Secret is the kind of candy that every woman deserves.. I think just like all women look beautiful on their wedding day no matter what their age or size or body structure, they all look beautiful in Victoria’s Secret lingerie to their SO’s. I LOOOOVVVVE Victoria’s Secret. If I could help it all my under garments would be only of Victoria’s Secret. They are so comfortable and sexy and honestly it’s pretty affordable if you want to buy something special every couple of months. The ultra feminine experience of stepping into a Victoria’s Secret outlet is divine for me. It will make the most hard core tomboy feel pretty and feminine.. I love the plush pink carpets the perfumes.. everything about the whole experience!!! I really wish my city had a Victoria’s Secret outlet. But since they don’t I settled for some online window shopping.. Was checking out their latest collection.. These are some of my favorites..



The first, second, seventh, and tenth were my absolute faves… (couldn’t narrow it down more than that..) Did you have any favorites? I am generally crazy about boy shorts, lace, anything black, and teddies.. Gojira has a partiality to anything really soft and satiny.. How do you feel about buying lingerie? Is it a divine experience or a humiliating one? I don’t think lingerie is anything to be ashamed of.  Speaking of which I have to clear the air and say how I’m so impressed with Gojira he had the balls to go into a lingerie store in K (very conservative country) and pick out two sexy lingerie outfits for me. People in India are pretty conservative too, though not as much as K. I do feel embarassed to go to a lingerie outlet here in my city cuz sleazy fat guys will hang around outside and watch who goes in and who comes out and sneer it’s really pervy and creepy.. After getting inspired by Gojira I’ve decided to pull up my socks and go get something special to wear before he lands here. I don’t care what kinda stares I get from those fugly lechers. Have to surprise him the first night he gets here and I will brave them and go get something sexy and special. Maybe even something for him too. loll..

edit: my post got featured on lovelyish, yay!! =) http://www.lovelyish.com/723018689/i-love-victorias-secret/

Currently listening to
Rude Boy (2-Track)
By Rihanna

My Latest Epiphany I’m Trying To Grasp…

You adjust to things that come into your life, good or bad…. and when they leave, you learn to continue living your life as if you never had it… Don’t go away empty handed. Learn from your experiences and your mistakes. Never depend on anyone else for anything whether it be happiness, love, money, confidence, success… gain these fruits for yourself, from within you. Do not expect anyone else to get these things for you. Believe in yourself. trust in yourself. be yourself.. because that’s the only one person you will be able to depend on always. Be comfortable being alone… create a barricade around your soul so that nothing can tear you apart and leave you weak. If that means being a bitch then so be it. At the end of the day YOU have to harbor those emotions of hurt, pain, and frustration when you become weak and soft enough to allow someone to make you feel that way. Harden your heart… Everyone looks nice from the outside but they all have agendas in their head. Don’t fall for them. Work is not a place to make friends. Do your job and leave. The more personal attachments you have, the more complicated life gets. Love yourself first. If you decide to trust someone enough to let them into your life, they come after you. If you allow them in, don’t be surprised if they pick up and leave tomorrow. In fact expect it. So it won’t be so hard to deal with when they finally do. Music is the only weakness you can allow yourself to experience recklessly. The only thing you can be vulnerable to without getting hurt. Experience it and embrace it whole heartedly.

Note: I cannot take credit for this epiphany. I had a conversation with someone (he/she knows who he is) and through a series of questions arguments and realizations I have come to find the above written. I thank the person who has helped me discover this. I am stronger and more enlightened because of this. This light is turned off..

 

Currently listening to Right Before Your Eyes  by Hoobastank
Daredevil: OST