Monthly Archives: May 2008

What is your favorite summer activity ?

I honestly dont have an impressive summer activity anymore considering im 25… not really a child anymore though i tend to behave like one when time permits sometimes… the only major summer activity i have is eating mangos since its mango season right now. apparently they use calcium carbide ( same stuff they use to make homemade crude bombs)  in mangos to ripen them, so ive been told to not eat them anymore so yeah thats pretty much at a complete stop right now… But this question brings me back to the days when i was a carefree kid with no worries hanging over my head and the complete summer to do whatever my little heart desired. besides the regular “tag, you’re it” games (ice/water was the favorite in my neighborhood), waterfights with the hose and sneaking around the yard with supersoaker 3000′s or wutever the latest watergun was out in the market, laying on the hot sizzling tar driveway with our towels to get a nice summer sun tan and see who could get darker… trips to the six flags darien lake were a must and of course visits from our cousins R & H from boston followed by a trip to boston with them. we fought like cats and dogs but we loved them because we used to have a lot of fun when we werent fighting. They would teach us all the things we didnt know not having a brother around, like how to make the perfect paper plane, how to draw, how to attack other people with water balloons and other sneaky devices. They were and still are amazing with science and they basically got my sister and i interested in science and the wonders of it. Our summer vacation was never complete without a trip to the boston museum of science with them and we always had so much fun learning different interesting things about history, chemistry, physics and we could see the experiments and activities in front of us to get hands on with it. They gave us a lot of  books which helped gain that interest and of course helped in school. my sister and i used to love building room size forts in the guest bedroom using blankets, books, big thick mail postage adhesive tape and god knows wut to prop dizzyingly high roofs and live in them at weeks on end till mom forced us to take it down… (she would also get so pissed cuz later on in the winters when she would take one of the same blankets out from the linen closet which was used in the fort she would find bits of tap stuck to it!) These forts were as crazy as the houses u could see drawn in any Dr. Suess book. completely high on one end and extremely low on the other with various odd sized peaks in between! (No grownups allowed was the rule of course!) And we used to take our whole life in there. we used to make a mini house – small reading room with lamp on one end… ( please try and ignore the various fire hazards we failed to recognize as children that could have ended in disaster!) we used to take sleeping bags in there so we could also sleep in there at night. we used to take games in there and invite our friends over to play inside with us. my sister and i had a knack for making secret clubs that involved of course lotttss of secret club meetings which the fort was perfect for. We also loved playing this game which we invented after my dad gave us an old portable recorder he didnt need. It was where one person starts recording a story usually starting with “once upon a time…” saying a couple lines to begin a story and handing the recorder to the next person who would continue the story in whatever way they wanted to. then after the recorder went around the room in a circle a couple of times we would end the story and playback the tape to laugh over what crazy story we had made. When we got bored of being cooped up in the fort we used to love going outside and used to play this game called wing singer which we learned from our childhood friend J. it was a game using a jump rope but nothing like the ordinary ways u could play with a jumprope… it was where one person had one handle of the jump rope in their hand and the other handle would be on the ground.they would start turning round with the jump rope to make a circle and the other people that were there would stand in a circle just close enough to have the handle hit their legs if they didnt jump. we started slow with the jumprope making the circumfrence of a circle and just less than a foot high if u dont jump fast enough to jump up before the handle of the jump rope comes around u were out. slowly as the game progressed the jump rope would come around faster and higher and the jumprope as we progressed starts “singing with speed” which is why the game is called wing singer. it sounds crazy but u should try it its really fun and the jump rope handle if it hits you doesnt hurt hard really u kind of it get used to it. lol… i hope i have a good creative brood of my own children someday so i can pass on the games that were legendary and wonderful for me. this was a good featured question that brought back many warm memories. thanks to whoever posed this question

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The Best of Sugar Ray
By Sugar Ray

What is your favorite movie quote?

“Life and death, energy and peace. If I stop today it was still worth it. Even the terrible mistakes that I made and would have unmade if I could. The pains that have burned me and scarred my soul, it was worth it, for having been allowed to walk where I’ve walked, which was to hell on earth, heaven on earth, back again, into, under, far in between, through it, in it, and above. “

This is my favorite quote by Gia which was in the movie GIA a true story about an unforgettable troubled model named Gia Carangi. You have to watch the movie. I related to this movie… Not the drug bit but the fact that she was so troubled and all she wanted was the simpler things in life. sometimes life gets to you… Its a phenomenal favorite of mine. No one could have done justice to this role like Angelina Jolie did.

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featured questions

i find the featured questions comforting. because sometimes i want to really write but im too stressed to talk bout my life at that point in time and the featured questions prevents me from not writing anything at all in my blog which is nice. the questions also provoke some interesting memories and thoughts and theories I never would have thought of initially to write down.

What do you look for when listening to music? What makes your playlist different?

People find my taste in music obnoxiously drastic because i listen to everything… and most of it put together opposes each other…i listen to rap, Reggaeton, R&B, hip-hop, crunk. I listen to artists such as…Nickelback, Limpy Bizkit, The Killers, Chingy (I LIKE IT WHEN U DO IT RIGHT THURRRR…!!!! lol.)The Tragically Hip, recently ive gotten into progressive metal…  TOOL is my first and main love, nothing is as sophisticated and complex as them and I will live my life dedicated to them.. DMB, Enya, Fiona Apple, Scissor Sisters, Gorillaz, Angels & Airwaves, Garbage, Blink 182, Sash, Evanescence, Def Leppard, Ludakrishna, Paul Oakenfold, Outlandish, Strings, Lucky Ali, Sean Paul, 50 Cent, Kelly Clarkson, U2, Paul Van Dyk, All-American Rejects, Coldplay, Gwen Stefani, BON JOVI (every song!!) Raghav, Daddy Yankee, a lot of selective Hindi OSTs, Opeth, Kalmah, RA, Lacuna Coil, Tokio Hotel, Porcupine Tree (they are similar and progressive like Tool but nothin close to the same level as TOOL!!), Paris Hilton, Call (Pakistani Heavy Metal Band!), Hilary Duff, Jamiroquai, The Postal Service, Modest Mouse, Death Cab For Cutie, Hootie & The Blowfish, Goo Goo Dolls (from my hometown!!! loyal fan to the end), The Pixies, Imogen Heap, all the music from OC, Black Eyed Peas, Coldplay, Three Days Grace, Ill Nino, Benny Benassi, Sade and the list goes on…. The only thing i really despise is country cowboy music. I just don’t get it. I seriously don’t.lol. its comical in my opinion. Recently Ive started getting into Indian classical. I love listening to indian flute, tabla is one of my sweet favorites, especially Zakhir Hussain, and also sitar or tambola. my taste in music is a mix just like my culture…. being brought up in the US and being a desi I really understand how my taste in  music has evolved into what it is today and Im proud of it just like Im proud of my culture and what defines me. When I look for music, first of all I try not to go looking for music. I let it find me like love should find a person in the same way. You go looking for it you’re usually bound for disaster! Gone are the days where we listen to commercialized pop music… wutever mtv burps out and tells the younger generation wuts cool and wuts not. Im not saying i dont listen to pop music there is some pop music you can find i listen to, but its according to MY selected taste not just cuz mtv says its “in”. I let myself connect to the music. depending on the genre the artist and his level of seriousness bout the music i either get connected and entranced instantly or  if its new and different its a nice vibe to my ears which makes me want to find out more about the group and their type of music.

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10,000 Days
By Tool

What makes someone a “good person”?

Hmmmm… so i decided to answer the question of the day… What Makes Someone A Good Person? well first of all a good person should genuinely mean well from the heart. which means he or she should have an open heart…or atleast make the genuine effort of trying to be open hearted and loving. Ironically, most people who are good think they are bad in some way because of something they’ve done or that happened which made them feel they are not good enough anymore. Most good people are the ones inside who feel guilty and feel that “Am i still a good person after everything that’s happened?” Good people keep trying to be better and evolve even though they might not be so good when it comes to their actions. In my opinion, even a murderer or rapist can be a good person because usually these are the people who were once good and something happened in their childhood or their life which they were not in control of which made them become outlaws. Most of these rapist and murderers had someone close to them hurt or killed in cold blood which they might have been witness to, or they might have been molested or raped or seen someone that they loved in that situation. These incidents play havoc on their mental health which causes them to commit such crimes. I think its great when Oprah shows reformed criminals on her show. People who once committed sinful and criminal acts and who are paying the price in jail, yet they are trying to evolve into better people. Whether it be through God – religion, doing community service to regain their touch on humanity and doing good in the world or even through helping others who are in the same situation. People need to see that even criminals are good people too. Why do you think most criminals are made to do community service? To remind themselves that okay they committed crimes and hurt people before but they do have a choice to do good things and when they do good things they feel good about themselves and understand they can be good people too. people like these are the ones who need our acceptance even more than others to  keep being good people so they can shed their criminal backgrounds.
I also think that we have a habit of torturing ourselves that “I’m not a good person anymore because i did this, this and this…” I think good is something we have the right to mold according to our beliefs and values. Thats what makes it interesting. Someone may be good according to his morals and values. Others may think that same person is a horribly bad person. Take abortion for example. ok, i know, touchy subject. A young college frat girl, gets a little irresponsible.. ok really irresponsible and lands herself pregnant. daddy’s just about maxed all his credit cards to send his precious lil’ girl to college and she’s studying body shot analogies and beer pong 101 with the college sororities instead of doing her subject coursework and going to class. A girl who doesnt even remember what happened the night before and ends up pregnant. I would hope she would make the decision of having an abortion knowing that firstly, that baby would not be a healthy normal baby since she was drinking every cocktail handed to her that night and high in the sky on drugs. secondly, dad and mom would go crazy because obviously where in the heck can she afford having a baby just fresh into the 1st semester of college? Thirdly, is this the time to have a baby? with her future just ready to be ridden like a rollercoaster with all of life’s possibilities laying in her hands? NO. The answer is no. now to some she would be termed as a baby killer. And im sure shes going to go through that guilt of having to abort her baby. But she did what was best for the unborn child and also herself. Shes barely just learning to take care of herself where can she take care of a baby. So according to her set of values what she did was right and that does not make her a bad person just because she had to go through an abortion. She is a good person because she chose to abort the baby as it would have not been good for the welfare of the baby or herself. She made a rational and logical decision based on her choices and the time in her life. Shes still a good person. I dont think anyone is a bad person. Maybe the choices or actions they took were bad. But everyone is a good person. There is nothing out there that can make a person seem anything else. Because we all try our best with what we have…To Be Continued…

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Lateralus
By Tool

lovely day

Well today is a lovely day i woke up early and i went to the Shivaji market in camp. omg i was completely grossed out. There were whole carcasses of cow just hanging from rods and i had never seen something so crazy and up close in my life. makes me feel like stopping non vegetarian food consumption in my life. The fish fruit and veg market was fun though… such a pleasure seeing fresh fruit and veggies full of so much green color. kind of made me forget the grossness of the chunks of meat hanging from rods.. lol… i was glad i didnt pass out or anything because it was a sight for sore eyes for someone who has gone for the first time! i went with one of my best friend’s L. ive been staying at her house for the past two weeks and once my job starts ill be back at my place again but im just staying with her for the time being to get away from some nagging loneliness that keeps creeping up on me every once in a while. yesterday i actually went to my place for some time to just clean up my house and make it livable once again which is a good thing… that way once this week is over ill be back at my place in a fresh house ready for my new job and life to materialize. yes i did finally get a new job. its a place called ventura. very good prospects from what it seems. will talk more about that later once i start work on the 19th. right now dont wanna think bout it since i want to enjoy my lazy days of summer freedom till i have them because i know they wont come back and ill miss them once ill be back into the grind of work… ive been learning a lot of cooking while ive been staying at L’s… so far have learned how to make poha, mutton curry (two kinds) and today im learning how to make chapatis. which i  know i have no excuse of not knowing… i should know so im making the efforts to learn a thing or two while i’m here… yesterday i bought some fresh canteloupe or mush melon as they call it here and also some mangoooosss… yes mango the king of fruits… been waiting to have… yay… anywho i better go now… this weekend will be going to bombay. im so excited :) will be looking forward to that… will write some more later… this light is turned….OFF!

 

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Audioslave

wish me luck..

Well, ive come online to blog after a long time since so much stuff has been happening. been so busy!!! i finally made the move and left my job at C after one year and three months and it feels so good. i made the choice of leaving a week before even finishing my notice period because i just couldnt take anymore of my team leader she had become a crazed mad psycho woman. i am not exaggerating i swear!!.. its kind of sad to leave in such a manner because all this while it was a good relationship i had with my boss.. but things happen and ive realized happiness is a big factor i have to look into and keep as my priority. i was being taken for granted. i was not respected for the work i did anymore and i was basically told by the hr and management that i would not grow just yet. the problem with C was ever since the management changed six months ago it has gone to the dogs. before we were given respect for the work we did and a chance to grow. we were rewarded for having outstanding and good performance with incentives and prizes and suddenly that stopped. the last couple of batches that were trained also were utter crap because the management was in such a hurry to just get them on the floor and make them work. so their quality is really shitty and since the new batches quality is shitty we tenured employees have had to make up for the gaps. because the management wants the quality on the floor to remain intact they have not promoted us because they want us to remain there and take good calls. so we have been taking all the slack and not being rewarded and not growing… wut kind of person would want to remain in such a hellhole. anyways in all this things have become very stressful because no paycheck next month most likely…. and still unemployed. ive already had one interview at bvisa which i hope turns out well… i have another interview today at V which should be good.. lets see…  my best friend L has been my moral support and her husband A been there to guide me. its been very sweet of them to let me into their homes and its been a joy staying with them for so long since i find it quite lonely to spend at my house. but im going to be adult and go back to my house next week. in fact tomorrow im going to my house and do the cleaning and all that necessary to get my place organized and pretty once again. going to go air out the place. give the maid her paycheck so she can start swabbing the place out. pay my electricity bill and utility bill, internet bill… organize my laundry so while i have some days off i can get that all into regularity since i have loads of laundry pending! but yah i think everything should be all fine and well and back to normal once i have the relief of having a nice offer letter in my hand. both L and i are hoping to get thru to this V company so we dont have to frantically search for a job elsewhere… so lets see what happens… nothing much else going on. if things work out well, ill be going to bombay next weekend to chill with L’s family. should be fun… cant wait to eat her mom’s yummy goan food and meet her brother and see her place. we also gonna do a little bit of shopping of course. thats wut we girls do best! so lets see wut happens….. yes i love saying that phrase. anyways time for me to go. gotta print my resume out and get some photos done for the interview. wish me luck… this light is turned off…

 

Currently Listening to Say Goodnight & Go
Speak for Yourself
By Imogen Heap